Nicole Snow
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Nicole Snow
11小时前
You see...
A lot of the time, it’s really hard for us to judge a situation.
Because the people around us—the ones giving us advice—always tell us to keep holding on to that person. Saying that if we both keep trying and working on things together, it’ll eventually be worth it.
But the problem is, they overlook the most important thing: maturity.
Maturity isn’t about being strong, being smart, or being independent to a certain degree. Maturity is about whether a person has the ability to change, and whether they have the self-awareness to reflect on themselves.
We also have to understand that some people simply won’t listen to what you have to say. Either they’re always too busy to reply to you, or the moment you try to talk, they immediately become defensive.
That’s why the art of letting go and stepping back is so important.
For people like us, who have big hearts and love deeply, we need to be even more careful about distinguishing between who is truly worth our effort and who is simply wasting our time.
Seeing through someone’s mask takes a lot of experience. And love is such a stubborn and sometimes foolish thing.
You might fall for someone and think, “Okay, this is someone worth giving my all to.”
But in reality, they may not be worth it.
Then you start asking yourself, “Why did I let her hurt me?”
But the truth is, we also need to be more careful about who we give our hearts to.
That’s where maturity comes in; being able to see whether this person can communicate, whether they can reflect on themselves, whether they’re capable of changing, and whether they’re willing to work through problems together with you.
You can’t blame yourself, because you already tried your best. It’s just that the outcome wasn’t what you hoped it would be.
It’s like a seed. If it was already rotten from the beginning, no matter how much you take care of it, it will never grow into a healthy tree.
That is maturity. And that is the art of letting go.
Knowing who this person really is, and whether she has the sense of responsibility and willingness to truly love you.
That’s all.
#beyourself# # #
Nicole Snow
1天前
Please remember....
Life can be tough sometimes and you don't have to force yourself to become a perfectly responsible adult. You don't have to carry the weight of the world on your shoulder alone.
Just be a carefree kid.
Share your joy with me when you're happy or when you feel alone, down or overwhelmed with life. Share everything that you want to share with me regardless of time and place.
Just vent to me.
You’re safe talking to me. This space is for you to be yourself, whenever you want, however you want. I’ll help keep this space safe for you.
So, let me know the real you.
Don't keep it all hidden inside because I'm not here to love only the perfect version of you, but everything about you. We will share highs and shoulder the lows together.
And I'm gonna be by your side, always...
#beyourself# #Love yourself#beyourself#sense#
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Nicole Snow
2天前
The truth about me..
I am someone who is gentle and caring, but I only give back the same energy I receive. When I love, I love with my whole heart, and that is why I am careful about who I let close to me.
I don’t care about status, appearance, or money. What matters most to me is whether you can stand with me when life gets hard.
Are you mature enough to have real conversations, or will you run away when things get difficult?
I am far from perfect.
I carry flaws and imperfections beyond my control. I don’t have a beautiful face or great achievements to boast about.
What I can offer is my gentleness, warmth, and understanding. It may not shine like a manager’s title or a flawless appearance, but what I bring is stability, sincerity, wisdom, and a heart as vast as the universe.
With me, you will never have to guess if I love you. My love is steady and clear. But that doesn’t mean I will ignore the hurt you cause, I believe in accountability, even in love.
I carry heavy burdens on my heart and shoulders. I cannot always be the calm and strong one. I too need someone who will love me sincerely, let me lean on them, and comfort me when I falter.
I want a partner who sees me as not as perfect, but as real, someone who can laugh with me, cry with me, and walk beside me through both storms and sunshine.
So if what I offer speaks to you—gentleness, warmth, stability, and a love that is safe yet boundless—then don’t hesitate to reach out.
I am not searching for perfection.
I am searching for someone real, someone who values honesty, resilience, and sincerity. If that is you, then perhaps we can build something beautiful together.
#truelove# # #
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C._03： Hi Nicole, may you find the love you deserve 🪐
Nicole Snow
3天前
"Am I difficult?"
I often catch myself asking that question. Not after every disagreement, but after I've apologized for needing reassurance.
After I explained myself in three different ways, I still felt misunderstood. After I'd left a conversation wondering if I should have asked for less, said less, felt less.
It's strange how quickly we turn ourselves into the problem. How easily can we start editing our personalities instead of asking whether we are simply in the wrong room.
I've put so much work into making myself clear to others that I kinda forgot to think about whether anyone was really trying to understand me.
Maybe I am difficult for some people.
Just like how some people are difficult for me. But I don't think that's a failure. I think that's what happens when two people speak different emotional languages.
These days, I don't ask myself, "Am I too much?" as often.
I ask, "Do I feel safe enough to be myself here?" The answer to that question has told me far more than the first one ever did.
Credit to @manseeesthetics on Instagram. #beyourself# # #
Nicole Snow
5天前
A time for myself...
I need isolation sometimes.
Not to escape people but to come back to myself. I don't realize how much of the day I've spent adjusting until I'm finally alone.
Replying.
Listening.
Being available.
Being patient.
Being the version of me that everyone else knows.
And somewhere in all of that, I get quieter on the inside. That's when I know I need to disappear for a while.
No conversations to keep alive.
No one needs anything from me.
No pressure to be funny, present, productive, or okay.
Just enough silence to hear my own thoughts again. I used to feel guilty about it. Like needing space meant I loved people less.
Now I think it's the opposite.
I disappear so I don't lose myself trying to be everything for everyone else. Because the hardest thing about constantly being there for other people... is how easy it becomes to forget what you sound like.
And every now and then, I need the world to go quiet... just long enough to hear myself again. #beyourself# # #
Shark🦈： quote of the day 😗
Nicole Snow
6天前
Something about me..
I'm clingy.
There, I said it.
If I like somebody, I don't know how to do it halfway. I want to exist in their personal space. Not in a suffocating way. Just in a natural way.
I want to sit close enough that our knees accidentally touch. I want to send random updates about my day. I want to be the person you think of when something small happens.
I don't like pretending I'm cool and detached. I don't like acting like I don't care when I clearly do. If I'm invested, I'm present. I want conversations that stretch past midnight. I want inside jokes.
I want familiarity.
But somewhere along the way, clingy became an insult. Like wanting closeness means you're needy. Like expressing affection is embarrassing.
Maybe I am clingy. Or maybe I just love loudly. Maybe I don't believe in rationing attention when my heart is involved.
If I like you, you'll know. And I won't apologize for that anymore. #beyourself# # #
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Shark🦈： Yesss trueeee, you will meet her in futureee
Nicole Snow
7天前
Just because....
I address something that's bothering me doesn't mean I'm trying to argue. Bringing something up doesn't mean I disagree with you or want to start a fight.
Sometimes, I just need to share what's on my mind and ask for a little clarity or reassurance so I can understand things better and not let it build up inside.
It's not about proving a point or trying to be right.
It's about being open and honest about how I feel. Just because I address something doesn't mean I want an argument.
Sometimes, all I want is to feel heard and understood. That's all.
#beyourself#
Nicole Snow
9天前
The Art of Kintsugi
Just because you're a lil bit broken, doesn't mean that you're unlovable.
Just because you're a lil bit too intense for everyone else, doesn't mean that you're not worthy of love.
Just because you're struggling to be normal and understand everything as best as you can, doesn't mean you're hard to deal with.
Just because you are who you are, it does NOT mean that your existence is a burden.
You are who you are because of all the things that you've gone through in your life that breaks you apart, and it shapes yourself as someone who's imperfectly beautiful.
Only the real craftsmen are able to appreciate the beauty of Kintsugi ⚱️#beyourself#
Nicole Snow
10天前
The Physics of Love
Mass is not proportional to volume.
That girl as small as a violet,
That girl who floats like a petal,
Pulls me toward her with force,
Greater than the Earth’s mass.
In an instant,
like Newton’s apple,
I dropped with a thump,
and rolled myself to her,
without stopping.
Thump...
Thump...
My dizzy heart kept swinging,
between Heaven and Earth,
It was my first love...
-Kim In Yook-
Video © all right reserved to @multitabisub from YouTube.
#soulmate#
Nicole Snow
12天前
Moment More—Orvak 🎶
We often settle for the kind of love we think we deserve. And too often, that ends up being the kind of love that breaks us, suffocates us, and leaves us feeling empty.
Real love isn’t about perfection.
It’s about acceptance, patience, and the courage to face the hard parts together. It’s about learning to love yourself first—because when you do, you’ll start to understand what love is supposed to feel like.
So don’t settle for the kind of love that drains you.
Choose the kind of love that helps you heal, that makes you stronger, and that reminds you of your worth. Because when you learn to love yourself, you’ll finally see what real love can be, and you’ll never accept anything less.
#beyourself#
Chean： 💯Agreed!
