「我終於放心了，她沒有活在【在乎】裡，這才是我想要的教育智慧」 -----葉海洋 你在乎什麼？什麼會讓你痛苦，只要有一刻這樣著相，你就不是智慧，你就輸了。 我的孩子，他們在我面前耍小聰明的時候，我從來都是挺無視的，此時不需要給她回應。當他們什麼時候我給他強烈的回應呢？ 例如在他努力、勇敢、善良、邏輯、聲明三觀非常正確的時候，基本上圍繞著這幾件事我一定會給予讚美。 "I'm finally relieved. She's not living in a state of 'caring,' and this is the wisdom I want to teach her." ----- Ye Haiyang What do you care about? Whatever causes you pain? If you're even momentarily obsessed with it, you're not wise, you've lost.When my children try to be clever in front of me, I always ignore them. There's no need to respond. When do I respond strongly to them? For example, when they're hardworking, brave, kind, logical, and have sound values? Generally, I only praise and affirm them for these things 說的太好了，那是最有人情味的時候，一句話讓我對年少做過的不得體的事情原諒了我自己。That was very well said. That was the most humane moment. That sentence made me forgive myself for the inappropriate things I did when I was young. 我不是不寬鬆，只是沒繞彎，原諒人性的複雜，卻沒學會怎麼讓對方不誤會。 It's not that I'm not lenient, I just didn't beat around the bush. I forgave the complexity of human nature, but I didn't learn how to prevent the other party from misunderstanding. 我理解人性，但不代表我理解對方，我終於找到合理的解釋了，我的誰誰誰誰，做出很絕情的事，我理解人性，但我無法理解他做出這樣的事！ I understand human nature, but that doesn't mean I understand the other person.I finally found a reasonable explanation. My dear, whoever whoever, did such a heartless thing. I understand human nature, but I can't understand why he would do such a thing! 修行不是拿那些條條框框來框自己。 而是允許自己出現任何能量狀態，在不同的能量狀態看到自己，覺悟自己，這叫修行，活出在生命真相！ Cultivation is not about limiting yourself with rules and regulations. It is about allowing yourself to be in any energy state, seeing yourself in different energy states, and awakening yourself. This is called cultivation, living out the truth of life. 每個人都在不停重組自己，遇到困難了，心靈破碎了，那就重新把自己撿起來貼好，重組自己的過程，也是在重塑自己對壓力對自我的認識，但是要相信自己會越來越好的。 Everyone is constantly reorganizing themselves. When encountering difficulties and feeling broken-hearted, they just pick themselves up and put themselves back together. The process of reorganizing themselves is also about reshaping their understanding of pressure and themselves. But they must believe that they will get better and better. “我是那種犯了一個錯誤就不會給自己犯同樣錯誤機會的人”"I am the kind of person who, after making a mistake, will never give myself the chance to make the same mistake again." 學習不是學生時代的事，也不是升職、賺錢的手段，它是讓我們應對此刻的難，能品味此刻的美，能找到此刻的意義。 Learning is not something you only do as a student, nor is it a means to get promoted or make money. It allows us to cope with the difficulties of the present moment, appreciate the beauty of the present moment, and find the meaning of the present moment. 不貪全、不偏執，明白每個選擇都有饋贈也有取捨，坦然接受當下的得，也笑著接納必得的失。 Don't be greedy or biased, understand that every choice has rewards and trade-offs, accept the gains at the moment calmly, and accept the inevitable losses with a smile. 這個世界是有磁場的，千萬不要吝嗇你對別人的好，人與人之間相處啊，其實就是一種心流，你怎樣對待別人，別人就會怎樣對待你，並不是你多付出一點就虧了，地球是圓的，你送出的每一顆糖，最終啊，都會回到你的了心裡。 This world has its own magnetic field. Don't be stingy with your kindness to others. The way people get along with each other is actually a kind of flow of mind. How you treat others is how others will treat you. It doesn't mean you lose out if you give a little more. The world is round. Every candy you give will eventually return to your heart. 你會焦慮是因為你有完成這件事的實力，事緩則圓，人緩則安，語遲則貴，總得給好運一點時間！ You feel anxious because you have the ability to complete this task. Things will be successful if you take your time, people will be at peace if they take their time, and words will be valuable if they are slow to speak. You have to give good luck some time! #她在這# #我的live就長這樣# #生活碎片記錄# #我很滿意我自己# #女子就是好# #今天妳是什麽emoji# #收集🌈你生活中的彩虹#