Nien
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Nien
3年前
找適合彼此的公司: 對我而言，工作會換，不會是永久的(尤其IT產業)，但是即使這樣，活著的每一天，都是值得被重視的，為什麼要讓我自己委屈?
我喜歡會在乎對方感受的環境(所以偏好face to face or video call rather than just voice call for an interview)、喜歡不那麼多人的公司、喜歡不那麼多人的辦公室、喜歡有自己獨處的空間/時間
、在乎實作及使用者體驗、喜歡冒險與挑戰(startup)、喜歡了解大架構而非只專精很小很小的一個部分(所以普通樂團的樂器們我都會，但我專精鼓)、討厭白板or刷題or演算法based的company。
所以專注在自己喜歡的方向/領域，去吸引彼此適合的公司，讓自己的每一分努力，都是開心的、心甘情願的；那麼每一個挫折，也都會是開心的、心甘情願的...因為是自己喜歡的領域，也因為是自己出自於喜歡，而做的選擇! 像我喜歡打鼓，但是也好喜歡遇到讓自己手腳無法協調的pattern，會覺得自己好可愛，然後在練起來後，又覺得很有成就感!
我喜歡看到自己同時擁有陰性跟陽性的特質，曾經為了成為大眾會喜歡的女生，而做了自己不喜歡的裝扮，現在則會去順從自己的內心。如果在外，太過於包裝自己，戴上面具，一直演，我也會覺得心很累。
做自己，喜歡自己，所以更有自信，然後又更喜歡自己、更愛自己；也同時吸引到，真正愛自己的人~
在網路上，遇到過不少，喜歡有肌肉線條的女生的男生，在北歐，也遇到過，喜歡我同時擁有陰性/陽性特質的男生。
外表、個性、興趣都是如此。當你喜歡，那就往那個方向走，自然而然能吸引到喜歡同樣事物的人!
Nien
3年前
獨處的時候，網路帶給我全世界，我跟世界在一起，跟世界各個領域努力的人們，一起發光發熱！
當我融入了小框框，被小框框影響，卻忘了，我跟世界在一起...
於是活在只有中文的世界，於是忘記對祢的依戀，於是忘記自己，曾經那麼proud of自己熱愛的一切..
Hi~我在哪、我是誰、我要做什麼?
If you really love something, just go and get it!
喜歡哪個領域、想認識哪個領域的朋友，就讓自己真正看起來，是屬於那個領域的人!
Nien
3年前
After staying here for so long,it is impossible not to be influenced by the environment and the culture surrounding me.
But it doesn't mean that I care the environment less than before...
I talked to myself when rode my motorbike, thought about why I love myself.
How dedicated and how much I love my hobbies, drumming, calisthenics and coding 😆
Not all because I got satisfaction of my achievements in these area, but also I love spending time and with pleasure while doing these!
And I do know I look fantastic when I doing something I am really into.
Nien
3年前
Whenever I feel depressed, I will focus on the good memories, especially the ones people helped me.
Whenever I get rejections, it will strengthen my determination that I will live by your side 😌
Nien
3年前
I remember when I first started to learn English in language school, I didn't feel very comfortable to keep using English, so during break time my classmates would divide into smaller groups with people speaking their own languages, and just using their mother tongues.
So it is very likely to see how struggle it would be when adapting a new language.
Luckily I still have motivation.
I learned English because I want to understand my favourite bands' interviews, I learn Norwegian because I want to work and live in Oslo.
I spent at least 4 hours learning and using English in a day, with this level of dedication, it took me half a year to get from about A2 level to about B2 level.
I'm just playing with Norwegian for now, don't really put much effort in, as a result, even I have played Duolingo for 1,200 days, I still can't feel comfortable enough with Norwegian.
Nien
3年前
You always tell me, people are learning, they are learning from mistakes. And when I get mad, think some humans are just hopeless, and don't understand why you can be such tolerant or maybe you just don't care at all...
Then you always comfort me, you say you trust my kindness no matter what, and that's why you like me. Sometimes I feel I am just like Thor, coming to this planet to learn some lessons, for instance, trust others and relax.
I won't be hurt most of the time, so just trust others more and relax.
Be the one you are meant to be.
Nien
4年前
Listened to Spotify today, suddenly the voice of Alexi came up, I was listening to the list of Nordic metal and power metal and fantasy metal, at the moment, the music remind me the reason why I work so hard, push myself to improve... I just want to be with you, Norway...
And about Alexi, I realize no matter where you are, even you are gone, you're still my hero, I think the universe choose me over you for some reasons, and I'm happy to take this one, my honour.
Nien
4年前
Kind of frustrated that I have set my phone in Norwegian since November of 2018, so it's been more than 3 years now, but I am about A1 level in Norwegian, even can't handle easy daily conversation.
I won't apply jobs in a country that I can't do the interview with their language or can't use their language as working language.
It's the key to at least have certain chances to fit in a country, since I am not born there, I have already lacked common memory, language is something I can at least achieve if I put the efforts.
So before I can speak properly, it's just likely to get an international job instead of local one, and will feel like I am just a passenger..
So it's the time, the time to improve my language ability.
Nien
4年前
難道是幸褔恐懼症嗎？
為什麼想著打工度假去Hungary or Slovakia，拿歐盟藍卡（但要3年工作經驗），再去芬蘭/瑞典？
2018/2019，曾猶豫要不要努力挪威語，就這樣...從2018年末到現在2022年，我手機的語言根本都在挪威語。
嘗試過手機設芬蘭語，但或許時空背景不一樣，挪威在我低潮時觸動我的心，也剛好那期間很有空可以專心學語言。
拿到offer才需出發，第一個工作待3年，往後就不再被簽證限制了。
在Stockholm車站的人潮...
是為什麼把Vy的app留到現在？
Nien
4年前
Looked back to what I did in the summer of 2019, closed my bank accounts, burned my diary, cards from my friends, postcard from traveling and concert tickets, gave my stuffs to many people for free. I feel how serious I wanted to fulfil my promise, and admit my mind wasn't ready so do my skills at the time.
Now I am here, tell the past me, tell the universe.
Hi, now I am ready, I am ready both mentally and physically, to use my way helping others, sharing ideas, living as a developer, a drummer, an athlete and more importantly, a kid of the world, a decent global citizen.
Even there are lots of people who are meaningful to us have gone, what these guys have done would keep affecting us, and I will keep sharing their influence, their kind, their positive energies, their knowledge, I will keep these energies flow.
I love the world, and I will give my kindness, my sincerity in return for the happiness I have received from the universe.
