Frances꧂☆
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I was always told who and what I should be, how I should act and the choices I should make.
I’m done living my life by the opinions of the people who don’t know me and frankly, don’t care and don’t matter.
If they had their way, they’d have me be just another copy in a world full of unoriginal pretenders.
I can’t live that way, because I’ll never be happy trying to be whatever it is they think I should be.
They didn’t walk my road, endure my struggles and nearly drown in the storms of my life..
So, when they try to whisper in my ear their opinion of me and my life, I’m going to smile and walk away.
I’d rather die in the flames of a passionate life than to slowly wither away in a life devoid of love and passion.
Sure, they’ll judge me, they’ll mock me and probably shun me, but I really don’t care anymore.
I’m not going to try to make anyone but myself happy, because that’s all I can really control.
I’m going to chase my dreams, enjoy my life and soak in the beautiful moments that surround me every day.
The rest of them will never understand that about me and they don’t have to.
I’m not asking for permission or approval to live my life the way that I choose.
Life is hard enough without trying to please people that don’t care in ways that don’t matter about things that are irrelevant.
Forget what the world thinks I should be.
This is my life, my journey and my choices.
Whether I’m different, unique or one of a kind doesn’t really matter, because I’m not being who I am to make a statement.
I’m choosing my path for the best reason of all..
To be happy..
And no one can ever take that away from me,
Now or ever.
|ravenwolf
#Post Your Life# #loveislove#Post Your Life#bekindalways#

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Frances꧂☆: Ahahahaha pagsure ba😂. Ana ka😂😘
No one knows....🥀
#Post Your Life# #loveislove#Post Your Life#bekindalways#Post Your Life#LGBT#
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‼ʍօӄօ‼: Somehow .. I knew! 🤪
I'm so happy for you 🤭😉
Dahil sa totoo lang...🥀
#loveislove# #bekindalways#loveislove#LGBT#loveislove#outandproud#
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Frances꧂☆: Ayehhhh mem😘🤗. My ever supportive mem
When someone says, "I want to be just like you," or "Oh, I'm so jealous of you," I'm not sure how to respond. Because it took me many years to be in this stage where I hold my peace more than I hold any relationship that halts its growth. It took me a lot of mistakes to be in this stage where I know now the importance of choosing myself first. It almost took away my breathing life, before I could finally learn to appreciate and love myself more.
I appreciate the gestures, and yet, I can't let them be. There were many failures. Many rejections. Many proven intuitions that I don't entirely belong to "this," and "that." Many heartbreaks and disappointments. Many closed doors. Many unresolved issues.
I was naive or ignorant for the fact that I can't expect that people would treat me the way I treated them. They can't respect me the way I did. Or love me in return, with the same magnitude, that I've given in months or years. Or dedicate their lives the way I've dedicated mine like shredding every piece of me that I cannot take back. And so I must live with the resulting shape and edges that proudly scream my scars in the open.
Sometimes when I hear these, I want to say—
"Don't try to be me. You can do so much more than me. You can be someone—with a name, that should carry such a beautiful legacy. You can be someone who doesn't have to carry a number of old wounds that never heal. You can be someone who didn't have to bargain her self-worth in exchange for harboring temporary attachments.
Don't try to be me. I might have just carried my scars with the willful ability to die and live once more, despite my broken soul."
#proudfriendhere# #secalix#proudfriendhere#theartoflosingyou#proudfriendhere#loveislove#secalix#bekindalways#

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‼ʍօӄօ‼: The practice of forgiveness is our most important contribution to the healing of the world. 😉
What made you decide that what we had was just a temporary ride?
Did I miss some riddles behind every word you’ve
spoken which told me you didn’t mean to stay for
long? Or was I completely abandoning my common sense because I got addicted to the fake show that you’ve put up that I so admiringly treasured inside my foolish heart?
I know I could have been the one. And you were acting like you felt the same way too. That’s why you kept on playing the victim part, even though in our sad love story—the actual villain was you.
#artoflosingyou# #disappointed#
#bekindalways#artoflosingyou#loveislove#



















