Cath 小林子
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Cath 小林子
2年前
Birds never scared of broken branches because they trust its own ability to fly.
随心所欲： It makes sense
Cath 小林子
2年前
We deserve fully not half. Why we satisfied with crumbs when we can get whole loaf?
Cath 小林子
2年前
Cath 小林子
3年前
Knowing the truth is so much relieving than stay in uncertainty or in the dark. Sometimes need a “chaos” to reveal the truth.
Cath 小林子
3年前
Talk2spirit:
Oftentimes, when we feel triggered, we respond in an escalated way without realizing that we're not just responding to what's happening in the moment. We're responding based upon all the things we've experienced that have caused us to feel that way before.
As a result of everything that's going on beneath the surface (i.e., "the previous experiences"), we may lose touch with our current reality without even realizing what's happening.
Sometimes, after we calm down (i.e., our nervous system returns to a deactivated state), we may realize what happened, but we may not understand why we reacted in the way we did, or if we do, we may feel too vulnerable sharing with the other person/people where that response is coming from.
The key to getting a handle on your triggers is to do the work needed to find out "what" is being triggered. Is it fear of something (rejection, deceit, loss)? Is it a hope for something (connection, safety, relief)? If you can see a trigger as an indicator that lights up to tell you something needs your attention, you'll be able to trouble shoot and heal the circumstance that's causing your body to go into hyper drive and overreact as it tries to protect you from taking the same hit you took in your past.
Cath 小林子
3年前
当一切是风平浪静的时候，我们看不到人的阴暗面，当有风吹雨打的时候好坏就能显示出来。有个说法吵架就可以识破一个人的真心。
Cath 小林子
3年前
我尽最大的努力了。日久见人心。相信自己的直觉是对的。细节中可以找到痕迹。好的不好的都摆在眼前，很多时候我们选择不去看它，但是真相始终会水落石出的。
Cath 小林子
3年前
“Emotional investment is the currency of love.”
Cath 小林子
3年前
People do what is comfortable for them, not what is right for you.
Cath 小林子
3年前
Slow pace. One step at a time. Chinese Indonesian, live in Jakarta, Catholic. 喜欢看侦探电视剧，看名人专访。学习心理学理论，文学，电影。认真专一。短发像男生但是不是T, 内心更像P。
