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当下的力量: 看样子是同行,😁我也是才放假几天。

獨處的能力
A self-sufficient ability
喜歡一個人的生活,學會獨處的能力是很珍貴的,從讀書開始,我好像從來沒有空窗期過,我最近開始在反思這件事情,也許這不是一個值得驕傲的,相反的,是沒有獨處的能力。
雖然不是被某個人綁架,離不開,可是這樣變相的是被愛情綁架,是被愛情困住了,這樣就不會是愛情的本質,因為我看似有選擇,但其實我沒有選擇,因為我少了單身或獨處的能力,我只能不斷不斷的,我想我希望,當我有選擇一個人也可以選擇愛情時,我還去選擇愛情,那才是自由也才對得起愛情的。
Liking a life of solitude and learning the ability to be alone is something truly precious.
Since I started reading and studying, I feel like I’ve never really had a gap between relationships.
Lately, I’ve begun to reflect on this.
Perhaps it’s not something to be proud of—on the contrary, it reveals a lack of the ability to be alone.
Even though I wasn't held back by any particular person, I was still indirectly trapped by the idea of love itself.
That’s not the essence of love.
Because it may seem like I had a choice, but in reality, I didn’t—
I was missing the ability to be single, to be alone.
So I just kept going from one relationship to another.
What I truly hope is this:
If one day I can choose to be on my own, and still choose love,
then that will be real freedom—
and only then will it be love that I truly deserve
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Adele: spitting facts 💯
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